Cowboy...Glad you got your toothbar. I have ordered attachments, and heavy objects online. Nothing to it! This is what I do...
Where I live is on a dirt road with a one lane wooden bridge. A freight truck would have a hard time delivering out here. I always have them drop ship whatever it is to the local truck terminal. When the attachment comes in, it is off loaded at the terminal, the terminal will call, (or you call, first), and then you take your pickup or trailer and they will load it on for you. I like it better since you don't have to have someone at home for a freight truck to show up at your door and unload or have to take off from work to go meet a truck. Dropping off at a terminal means you can go and pick it up at your leisure. And a drop ship to the terminal is cheaper than a residential delivery.
Look in your phone book for the local trucking terminals, (Yellow, Old Dominion, etc). Ask whoever you are ordering from who the trucking company is. If you have a terminal close by of a specific carrier, you can specify that you want them to handle whatever you are ordering. And I don't think they handle mail order brides...