I replaced mine several years ago. If I remember right, the torque was around 39 N-m. After tightening, loosen again and retighten - then torque and install the cotter pin. Bordercollie.
Many of those stores loan them to you for free if you want to do that. I've borrowed them as well as spring compressors and they just let you have them for a day or 3.You can also try places like NAPA, Carquest, Advance Auto, etc.